Is it wrong for me to be upset with my sister who is helping me during this coronavisrus time take care of our elderly mother?
My older sister is helping me taking care of our 90 yr. old mother during this coronavirus time. We split the week taking care of her. I am with Mom 4 days of the week and she takes care of her on Friday’s and on the weekends.
I just learned that she will be going to a birthday gathering on Thursday evening. Is it wrong for me to be upset with her that she is starting to socialize knowing that she will be putting my mother’s health in jeopardy, as she will be taking care of her the following three days.
Background: We love our mother and years ago we agreed that we wanted Mom to stay at her own home and would not put her in a Home. Our Mother is a very special, sweet lady that dedicated her whole life for her family. It is an Honor and joy for me to take care of her. I was so relieved that she was going to give me a hand so I can have much needed mini breaks. I am the youngest of 3 sisters. (All sisters over 60 yrs. old)
I feel so hurt, as we spoke at the beginning of this coronavirus and we agreed that we would only go out to the the grocery store and agreed that we would not go to gatherings.
I am just venting right now (and crying over this) and wanted to hear from this forum if you think I am wrong in being upset/hurt with her.
Thank you for just being here in this forum.