I really don't know where to begin with explaining this situation. I've been helping to take care of my mother for almost a year now. She suffered a serious stroke that left her paralyzed on her left side. She also has low vision due to diabetes, which was before the stroke. Her husband (my father) passed away only a few months before she had the stroke. My sister lives with my mother. However, I'm usually the only one who bathes her, changes her, makes sure she's taking her medication, and everything else. I get up every morning before work to go to my mother's place to clean her and get her ready for the day. Then, when I get off work, I have to go back to my mother's and get her ready for bed. This has taken a toll on my marriage and my finances. My wife is telling me she's moving out of our apartment, because she barely sees me. We've been married for 3 years. My father left my mother money from his pension, but that is beginning to run out. No one is able to afford very much in home care. At this point, we're considering assisted living or a nursing home. I don't know what to do anymore, I'm trying to fight to hold on to my marriage, but I can't just abandon my mother.
Would really appreciate some advice.