So I have a nice home its paid off. I told my mother two years ago when I bought the house she can come to live with me in my pool house if ever she didn't have a place to go. ( she was living with a boyfriend at the time .) She's 74 years old and is selling her home to my son on a monthly basis due to her not being able to pay everything on her own.
Anyhow she moved into the pool house immediately!
I like her being there most of the time. Here is the issue, I work full time on a 3 week rotation away from home. I pay all the bills for her ( electricity ,water bill, dish network ,internet so she can watch netflix , I also told keep the a freezer in the garage full so she will never not have food ... meat ,fish,shrimp, fish )
Anyhow here is my issue , she wanted to put flooring down in the pool house like the wooden looking pergo flooring and I said no because I like the cement the way it looks. she got so angry.
well then she wanted to change the counter tops and I said no because I like them the way they look .again she got so angry she said she would just get it done while I was at work.I lost my mind and told her she better not change anything that is permanent without us discussing it and agreeing on it because I like it like it is. Well a year and a half later one of the window units break and she said she's not responsible because it's my home and I need to replace it. I waited 4 months to replace it because I told her she should replace it because she lives there for free. Long story my brother guilt-ed me into getting a small unit and my mom is angry that i didn't get a big one like the one that broke. well now a couple of days ago her front unit is going out and I told her she better save her money and now she pissed again. meanwhile she just bought a 1,000 TV because the 55 inch TV I bought her last year was not big enough and has purchased a nice recliner that helps her get up ... and a bed that moves into a sitting position and is talking about getting a big dining room table I don't care what she buys but why cant she buy the air-conditioner? I work and all my money goes to bills she thinks I'm rich and that I give everything to everyone else and nothing to her , I recently gave her 160.00 to go out of town with her sister because I wanted her to have fun ? but she says I give more to other people . shes angry that I just gave 5 pairs of tights to my sister. She's mad that I bought a car form myself and not for her. It's never enough ... I'm regretting that I bought a home with a pool house now. I didn't expect her to be so jealous and selfish. I was so proud that I would have a nice beautiful place for her ... its a 1100 square foot pool house and when she talks about it to other people she calls it a shack :(
I just got remarried and my wonderful husband is disabled and home all the time and shes so manipulative. Hes so kind and caring and she keeps trying to get him to get me to do things lol and he tells her hes not getting in the middle of it.
She even complains that he is spending my money ?