I do not have a great relationship with my MIL yet I have cared for her from time to time. She is in almost perfect however plays the guilt card and is desperate for attention from my husband. We live in different countries however he wants to relocate her to where we are and that terrifies me.
I know I'll end up being her carer.
Even if I don't I resent the time she is going to take away from our lives, I hate the fact that hubby will end up popping in daily and spending every weekend visiting, there goes our spare time.
And in this new country she would have no one else and be completely dependant on us.
Am I right to worry? What sort of strain will this put on our relationship?
You are right. Do not let that happen.