My mom passed away a couple years ago. My dad is still grieving. Now my aunt is dying. He is incredibly lonely and grief-struck. He is not in need of a caregiver physically and he still works, but I'm so worried about him. He refuses to speak to a therapist. I have been there for him for the past couple of years. I recently met a wonderful man and we're getting married in a few months.
My sister lives in another state. She is single. We don't talk anymore because she has been abusive to me. She loves him, but will not move here to help out because she doesn't want to disrupt her life. I had cancer while my mom was dying and had no one at all to help me through it. Neither my dad nor my sister think it was wrong to completely ignore me during my chemo and radiation. I have been clinically depressed, but play happy for my dad. I just want to get married and enjoy my life for a change. Am I being selfish? Help!