I feel stuppid for asking lame questions every day but.. here goes. Betty ( MIL) has been upset of lte that I don't go on outtings with her and my hubby so today I showered and went along, she wanted to buy bras. So we looked for them and found some great sales, she wore tired and I got her a wheel chair and gave her a coke and a pain pill. within an hour she was on a wild shopping spree buying out the store. She got herself 2 bras then went to the mens section and found great sales on jeans, slacks and belts for my hubby. She got confused between the womens department and the petites, she is very tiny and normaly buys petites. We ended up in the ladies department and she started picking out items for me and I was hesitant, I can't afford these $ 50 dollar jeans even marked down half off. She got me a pair of jeans a pair of shorts and 2 tops. Before we left the house she didn't like what I was wearing and wasn't shy to tell me to go change LOL which I did to apease her. I know when her credit cards comes in she won't remember these purchases, she has forgotten in the past. I'm stuck in the middle, if I refuse them she will call me everything under the sun and say I am just trying to NOT GET ALONG but when the bill hits and she won't remember she will say we are abusing her credit and will start another fight. WHAT DO I DO?