My Dad is 80 years old and is progressing with alzheimers. Dad still lives at his home with our youngest brother. This brother is not employed elsewhere. We also have a sister who lives fairly close to Dad( 5 miles away). These two siblings are the main caregivers. The problem is that they do not include or let other siblings know what is going on with Dad. We never know about Doctor appts. meds, diet or other matters regarding Dad. When we do come visit Dad both siblings act very guarded and secretative. There have been some major renovations done to Dad's house last year. Again this summer more projects have come up. We are never made aware of these projects unless Dad happens to mention them. Sometimes we aren't sure if we should believe him because of his alzheimers, but he is usually right on. I find it hard to believe that at this point in Dad's life that he is wanting to spend this kind of money. Do the other siblings have a right to know or question these kinds of expenses?