This neighbor is 75, very poor eyesight and the house is a mess = a mobil home loaded with bugs, spiders and dirt. She has lied to me every day about cleaning and vacuuming. She is away right now with her daughter because of the storm Sandy, and I have to go in and feed a cat. The house is so bad, I don't even want to walk in there. She has a son about 25 minutres away who will come and do quick outside things for her but I don't think the son or daughter basically give her the time of day. They are healthy grown adults. I am tempted to call social services but am considering more on calling the son nearby and just telling him the whatfor. There has got to be some assistance there. She can only walk slowly, smokes 2 packs a day, is bored beyond, terrible leg problems, lies to me constantly, tries to design her lifestyle so others in the hood have to do her transportation to everywhere, and I hate having her in my car. But, I am concerned for her. I take her to food pantry and a church for free food. She is on social security, her husb. died 11 years ago and left her with big debt. I suspect she is Imperious to her children just so she can live alone. I have gone in there at Christmas and 4 adults - 1 child grown in 50's and her liv-in and one grandaughter and her live-in, staying there a few days, and it was like facing a bunch of cows. They never said a word but they were showered and dressed, and my friend was still in pj's and had cooked breakfast for them and was washing the dishes. I checked out the bathtubs this morning and they have NOT been used for heaven only knows how long. Should I chance calling her son and telling him the truth?? I am only a neighbor with a car and aquaintance of the lady.