My mother in law lives on the same property we do and has recently accused me of trying to scare her away by breaking into her home at night and stealing things like mothballs from her drawers. She has slowly been declining for the past several years and makes several accusation mainly towards me and my daughters, her grandkids, however this is the worst to date. My husband and I currently take sole care of her financially and I am not sure what to do at this point? Should we take her to be looked at by a Dr. as she has never been diagnosed with dementia. Her daughter, my sister in law, lives in another state and has full control over her finances however plays no part in taking care of her. It is very hard as she has pushed my daughters away and continues to do the same with my husband and I. This is hard for my entire family and I do not know how to handle the situation in the best interest for all of us?