This man has been a daily part of me and my 2 kids' lives for over 15 yrs and during that time his 2 boys have visited him a total if 5-6 times . This last year they started showing up every couple months , they have called us family since i could remember . Our boys even stay for a week at each others houses .
i know the oldest son has p.o.a over their dad medical since his wife( their mom) passed in 1989 . Dad also has a disability from an accident when he was 21 . He has had short term memort loss since the accident but has lived all these years alone .except a welfare check once a year from his kids . I met him in 2000 and his house was gonna ger foreclosed on and alot of debt fron a previous caregiver taking advantage of him .,
his kids didnt even care . I helped him with his financial agent get his house paid offagain and he has been debt free for most of the time ive known him. .
I have told his kids everything i was doing wen i did it . They never had a problem. Which is why this next part is so confusing. I said they started coming up more frequent this past year. Well with out talking to him ,or asking him ...they took him one morning back to live w the youngest boy . I havent seen him since . Ive called to find out wat happened and why and no answer and blocked on fbook and messenger..
they never told anyone they took him , plus they put lock bars on all the windows and doors . When i did get some one to speak to me one time she said it was a spontanios thing they didnt plan to take him . So i guess they always carry a new deadbolt and 12 lockbars in their trunk all the time ..
All that being said finally i got to speak to him but she told him wat to say. Then i got a civil standby just to go say hi since i didnt get to and they refused to let me see him and are telling everybody that he has dementia which he does not. . They may have poa but hes still competent abd they no right to isolate him from friends and family . I also dont believe any of wat they did was in his best interest.. I kmow for a fact he does not want to be there liveing with his son. Id bet my life on it.
Its been since dec. 2 2018 since ive seen him and i really miss him .hes my best friend. How can i get to see him and let him know wat his options are. He can leave if he wants but his kids wont tell him that and wont let me....btw they have been to neworleans at mardigras and vegas a couple of time since . Wen they took him they also got the 5000$ insurance check for car that was in both our names ,his 2000$ in saviings and his 3800$ a month income and his son quit his job .
please i dont know what else to do except go sit on the front lawn until he comes out to smoke a cig or get the cops called on me. But he has a right to see friends .i just want to bring home to where he wants to be so he can have quality of life . What can i do .?