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My wife keeps asking for her phone. I have an old phone I could give her. Some issues are 1) logging in, 2) keeping track of it, 3) I know there are more issues, just can't be more specific at this time.
At some point, dementia patients have to give up their phones. In my husband's case, he eventually lost interest in his phone (and in fact thought it was the TV remote). Since you mentioned her issues, I'm wondering if she's asking for the phone because she recalls it as a comfort, but perhaps she wouldn't be able to use it if she had it? If that's the case, you could give her your old one, make sure it doesn't work, and she can carry it around and be happy.
Now if you want to give her one that works, it could end up being a source of frustration for both of you. Especially when she starts calling Thailand to talk to Lover Boy. It happens.
You'll get some helpful advice here, hopefully telling you of a very simple phone that she'll be able to use for a while at least. IMO, any phone that works isn't such a great idea. You might want to ride out her requests, make excuses why she can't have it, and eventually she'll forget about the phone. My husband used to answer his phone for every ring and talked to some serious fraudsters over time. I barely saved him from sending money at one point. When his phone became the TV remote, I was very relieved!
RAZ Mobility phone. You control everything from an app on your phone. No internet, no texting. Just calling in & out, pictures of the approved contacts, looks like a smart phone. I have one for my Mom and although she doesn't like me controlling who she calls, it is a necessity to preserve my sanity and protect her.
My Mom also uses my old iPad to play games on. She uses that way more than her phone.
Dawn attach an airtag from apple to the phone. You can track the missing item easily from your phone. I attached many of them including one on the fall alarm wrist band my father wore. He liked to go outside the building to walk around and since he was no longer a flight risk the staff allowed him to do so. It was easy for them to locate him or they called me and I would tell them where he was. The facility was gated so he really could not go far.
Why does she need a phone? Give her an old one that has no connectivity that she can carry around with her if she wants, but certainly do not provide internet, and best not to provide phone service. Or set it up so the only person she can talk to is you, or maybe any trusted children. Otherwise, it will likely just be a source of frustration and possibly danger.
A big issue with dementia is learning new tasks or skills. So if one is not already familiar with a device, learning how to use a new item is very challenging. Regardless of which phone you provide, I would think it would not likely work well. Based on my experience in Memory Care units……the residents don’t use personal cell phones. I could call my LO at the facility number and they would put her own on the phone.
I got my mom a dementia phone and programmed numbers into it. It's a landline phone. However, it's rare when she uses it. She doesn't remember if someone has called her or not.
My husband has vascular dementia and an iPhone .. his OT showed me that his iPhone could be set to assistive access. Settings ..accessibility .. assistive access .. start assistive access .. set a 4 digit passcode ...and follow prompts to customize his needs i.e calls, messages, calendar, mail, clock, his favorite apps to limit online access, music, TV apps, to do list, voice memos, etc ... To exit this assistive access mode, press on/off button 3 times and exit...good luck .. hu by was a little resistant at first but now he is able to do what he wants to do on his phone without confusion. And I have peace of mind knowing he is safe while using his phone ....
why not go back to an old fashioned land line with pre program numbers. My mom had one while still in IL almost time for MC. I set it up so that included call forwarding so that I could answer for her and monitor her calls and voice mail.. Generally I would not answer because caller ID was also present. If she was not in her room then there was no need to use the phone. I knew the general times she would be in her room so I could call her.
As others have said, get her a RAZ phone if you must, but even this will become a problem after awhile as she will not be able to figure out how to use it and become frustrated. Maybe give her an child's pretend phone to carry around if it makes her happy, or redirect the conversation. It was lost, was broken and out for repairs, etc etc as often as necessary.
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I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
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Now if you want to give her one that works, it could end up being a source of frustration for both of you. Especially when she starts calling Thailand to talk to Lover Boy. It happens.
You'll get some helpful advice here, hopefully telling you of a very simple phone that she'll be able to use for a while at least. IMO, any phone that works isn't such a great idea. You might want to ride out her requests, make excuses why she can't have it, and eventually she'll forget about the phone. My husband used to answer his phone for every ring and talked to some serious fraudsters over time. I barely saved him from sending money at one point. When his phone became the TV remote, I was very relieved!
My Mom also uses my old iPad to play games on. She uses that way more than her phone.
Yet my Ex has lost 2 of them already. At least they are cheap.
Is this how the phone is marketed?
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