I'm struggling on how to let my sister go. All she does is bad mouth me and whine about not getting paid enough from our mom and is struggling. She has a house we completely redid for her, pays no rent, takes more money than my mom makes from SS so she lives off my dads AF retirement and that has to pay bills. She went to our sister in laws funeral and did nothing but bad mouth me and tell everyone I make her work all the time lol. I do 2 shifts with my mom and there 24hr ones on Tuesday cuz I bath her and than again on Thursday 24hr I have arranged for night help now and have always had some one every other Friday and Saturday. So if I do 2 days every week and every other week I have some one do 2 that's only 3 days every other week she works. Now how does that make me a bad guy this is our mother. I pay out of pocket for the rest of the help. I need good strong advice.
When you say " takes more money than my mom makes from SS" do you mean she is spending your mum's money on herself? That would be senior financial abuse.
It might be worth checking with an attorney - first consult is often free.
I gather you can get someone else in to cover the time your sis was with your mum.
Let us know how you make out.