Hi, My eldery mom has been diagnosed with severe depression and memory loss and is on anti-D meds. She is also starting testing of her cognitive abilities to see if she has dementia, etc. I feel my also elderly dad is not equipped, including his memory, with asking the right questions and sharing all details with the main doc, neurologist, and psychologist. He and mom finally gave the primary care permission for me to speak to him and I have yet to. I feel I need to go to the appointments to help lead what is shared and questions to ask. My dad is waiting for next appointments to bring something up to the doctors. In the meantime her meds need adjusting based on her condition worsening and new side effects. My hubby says I should just show up at the appointments but I am concerned about a public confrontation and upsetting my mom. I can call the primary doctor to tell him what's been going on and ask him to call the other doctors? My dad will be mad, but he did give me permission to speak to this one doc. Any advice is much appreciated- thanks!