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My husband has been suffering from dementia and multiple myeloma and gradually losing ADL and other functions. Two weeks ago he fell and had a brain bleed and compressed vertebrae, After several days in the hospital he was moved to rehab and has made a lot of progress but he will never return to the level of ability that would allow us to continue to care for him at home. We had been looking at local memory care facilities and now have been advised by palliative care at the hospital and oncology doctor that we should be seriously considering Hospice. He can stay in rehab for a few more days and we have found a memory care facility that we like. Our question is; do we keep him in rehab past the medicare limit to allow for x-rays and a CT scan to check on the residual damage or do we go straight into Hospice?

Hospice is end of life care. At this point no further testing is needed. When a Doctor recommends Hospice, he is telling you no more can be done for your husband. I would place him and have Hospice come there. He will be kept comfortable and pain free. You can visit as his wife not his Caregiver. You will have aides to give him any care he needs.
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I would ask the oncology doctor his opinion on more testing. He may say to move dad to hospice/MC and not do a CT scan if the info from the scan would not result in a change in prognosis or treatment.
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What would xrays and CT scan ultimately do? What will knowing more about residual damage benefit him? Hospice is not about treatment or cures, hospice is about comfort care.

I think you need to have a discussion with his medical team to ask the question, "What advantage will having extra information about residual damage provide?" If they can't tell you, or it really won't benefit him, then there's no point in doing it.

I'm sorry you have to endure these circumstances.
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I’m sorry your husband has had such a sad turn of events. Seems you need his doctor’s advice on the timing of moving from rehab and further testing. A bunch of former and current caregivers aren’t the best people to advise on that. I’m glad you’ve found a next place you feel good about. I wish you both peace
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