We are a very small family of two taking care of my grandmother. I am a working mom of two little ones and my mother works full time. We have hired two lovely homecare aids to work with gram. Throughout her life my gram has been a stubborn and difficult person. Don't get me wrong I love her very much. She is a my way or the highway type... and watch out if you don't agree with her. She always tells people that she is meek and mild. Recently her dementia has become worse. Her short term memory loss is the biggest issue. Recently med care has been transferred to her home healthcare aids. She often forgets to take her meds. Gram is very angry about that. She is not paying her bills. When we try to sit down and discuss finances with her she accuses us of scheming to steal her money. She argues about everything. A lot of it is because of her memory loss. It's almost become an impossible situation, she gets so upset that nothing is getting done. She gets herself in such a state that we have to put an end to the conversations. It is even getting to the point where she has accused the aids of hitting her. I can assure you that hasn't happened. She is completely unreasonable. I am almost afraid to be alone with her because of all the accusations she makes. We are uncomfortable handling her finances. I have spoken to her doctor and have gotten no where. Honestly I don't think the dementia is that bad, it's her way of handling things that is. Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you!