Who rarely visited or kept in touch for 8 yrs known. Mature professional caregiver, close friend of family over 20 yrs, cared for this 96 yr old for 8 yrs in her home, until her demise. The grandkids resent she refers to this lady as an aunt, even knowing this was preferred by this client. This caregiver was appreciated by the client's niece and daughter. It is a sudden dislike by 2 granddaughters for her to address her by aunt. Who is right, who is wrong?