What do people do? I mean SPECIFICALLY. Just wave, blow a kiss, and leave? the facility is only a few miles from here and since i have no car and would be using my bicycle to visit that wouldn't be too hard to go however often. I suppose some would say 'don't go to visit every day' ~ well, ok, maybe, but yesterday my older friend's advice was "once she's there, don't visit her for two weeks so she can get used to it." Frankly I was a little horrified ~ there's no way I can imagine myself doing that to my mom ~ she's still somewhat lucid a fair amount of the time. I know she may actually do better there, but how can i explain that to her?