We have family or friends visiting practically every day for 2.5 months now. She is agreeing to go to some activities but when the time comes, she refuses to go. She leaves her room for meals and the hairdresser lady and that's about it. Often when we arrive at her room for a visit, she is laying in bed, half asleep. Often she will get up and then engage in conversation - stating she "wants to go home". This is NOT an option and I wish I could help her to be more accepting of her situation. For years we tried to get Mom to look for a single floor apartment for when this day would ultimately come. She refused to move on this until now, it is not an option.
She has some dementia so this compounds the whole situation.