Im in tears- DPOA for my Granny and also caregiver w/compensation. We've an agreement for years. My POA's and contract with my Grandmother are very specific. As for what my abilities are, for what specific powers she to granted me and also for compensations or reimbursements etc Granny and I both felt before, during and after the contracts being signed that things were fine and also they were legal. Now after 4 years of having POA Ive giving up my home, moved to where I could take care of my Granny, I then supervised her in home caregivers and I worked for her personally as a caregiver and for duties as POA. After the in home care couldn't be afforded I placed her in a seemingly very nice assisted living. Started cleaning, more repairing than ever thought needed and am clearing out her home and put it up for sale. Ive killed myself caring for her and taking care of her MANY affairs, and so have my fiancé and many of our friends. Now Im being accused of stealing her $ and or misusing it. Im between fury and tears. How the heck do these people think things get paid for and things get done?? Anyone else would have charged her much much more than me, my fiancé and anyone else who's been paid for doing all of it. Its called services rendered. We don't have the usual everyday poa or caregiver contract. All the things they say im doing wrong Im not. They are in black and white , agreed on and signed together yeeeears ago. Example: I paid 3 workers for helping with cleaning, repairs, mowing, moving items, hauling it all to storage etc, bought blinds/curtains, rented carpet cleaner and cleaning supplies, bought granny some clothes, snacks/food and her hair to get done and paid for it all out of my pocket cash, and kept a tally/documentation of it, then I reimbursed myself for that later on, with her $. How can that be stealing or misusing it?? HEEELLLP!!