I found this site when I did a search on the above. I'd just caught my mom, Depends pulled down, squatting and peeing in her chair. This isn't the first time. She's also done this with poop. Not just her chair, It could be the bed, the floor, the garbage can, the kitchen chairs... I found some other comments on other sites about it really not being on purpose and they really don't know what they're doing. I'm having a hard time with that. I don't mind accidents. But when she actually pulls down her Depends to go wherever she chooses it drives me crazy and infuriates me. Is it me? Do I just have to learn to accept this behavior? I've explained to her that that's what her Depends are for and it's easier to clean/change her then to have to clean poop up or scrub and dry furniture and/or the clothes or whatever she used to clean herself. I can and do deal with a lot, but this is the one thing that if it gets any worse I really think about her having to go to a nursing home something I promised her I would never do.