Mom has Alzheimers and reviles me now. I am the one closest to them who takes care of their needs. I found them in home care part time which they like. Pop treats me mentally lousy to stay on her good side. If I hear one more person tell me that I have to understand that he lives with my mother and not me and that I should accept all the mental abuse from both when he is sharp as a tack I am going to scream. I am going along......here is how it plays out.....Pop HATES to ask me for things but has to.....when I bring a prescription or pick them up it is as though I am being punished for helping. When I leave them I am so hurt and betrayed I could just explode in my car. But you will say I have to always be nice and go along with it all. Is that so true? My Mom has an excuse but my Dad? All I do is try to help and I am treated like the scum of the earth.