I have been reading a lot on here about being abused. I am assuming child abuse & then abuse prior to the illness taking over the mind. Maybe I am wrong.
Would you include physical abuse? Is this spanking on the rear or more than that? Would it be with a belt? More?
Emotional abuse? Of course and how bad.
Verbal abuse? Of course and how bad.
I guess I am trying to find out what these parents do exactly to kids. I was married to a narcissist/diagnosed as such and he never abuse our kids. He was an excellent father, hard as it is to believe. I was his sole target. So I am just wondering if anyone can answer my questions and I wonder why my children, who are now adults, NEVER saw him as the abuser. They thought I complained about a good man.
Thank you very much.