My father and mother seperated when I was 12 years old am now 57 and he is 83. He now has dementia. He was living alone and I paid someone to clean his house, shop for him and even had him in a Sr. Day Care. He recently went into the Hospital and they discovered he had blocked arteries and now 9 weeks later I have him living with me because I don't think that he should be alone. However, I am about to lose my mind. I have not gone into my office only about 3 times in the nine weeks am fortunate enough to work from home. My issue is that the bible teaches us to Honor our mother and father. But I find my self resenting the fact that am now left to care for him after him not being there for me. I have 3 other siblings two don't have anything to do with him and the other one's schedule doesn't permit for him to share in the caring. I am ok with preparing breakfast, lunch and dinner. I have a large house and when am away or a sleep my father manages to go to the kitchen and find food and snacks but all through out the day he constantly wets on himself even with pampers every morning the bed is wet and so is he. I know this is not the right thing too do but the cost of the pampers and bed pads seem to have left me with no choice but to leave him wet. The restroom is next to his room and when he gets up or go to lay down he has to pass the restroom but will never enter. Is there anything that I can do to make him go to the restroom. I have considered just keeping him in a section of the house since he want go. My wife and I wash clothes everyday because we change him two to three times a day.