She lives separately from him, took over home and cell phone. Help! She is using his money to pay her bills, doesn't work, is keeping all family away. Today was an appointment to find out mental status of my Dad. She cancelled it and turned off his phone so I can't contact him. She had my name removed from Doctor's list of people to contact. She was a truck driver and at one time had a panic attack and had my dad drive the semi. He had never driven one before. She is putting him in danger medically, and physically.
Just curious, since you don't have any contact with your father, how do you know all these things are going on?