Parents can no longer live where they do. House is too much to maintain and mom keeps falling. Mom is 76 with diabetes, CHF, about to go on dialysis. Dad has CHF, diagnosed 5 years back. Had valve replacement and stent last year. Fatigued at times but ok generally.
A few years back I suggested my parents move down. Now that they know they need to move, they want to come down and live with me. They would sell their place and give me the $$ to buy a bigger place for us all to live together (I’m divorced with 2 daughters...7th grade and 10 grade).
Actually it is more my mom that wants to live with me. My dad just doesn’t want to shovel or do any house maintenance except load the dishwasher. My mom is worried one of them will pass after moving in to AL and then be lonely and unable to move anywhere else.
If this were a few years back, it would have been ideal. With Covid, house prices are ridiculous! It will be difficult to find something that we can all be happy with in our price range without moving my kids from their school.
Where do I start with this whole process?