I didn't know she was dying. No one told me. Now that I have done some reading on it she had the symptoms. Quit eating, her body temp was 93. Her blood pressure was very low, sometimes 64/40 and her heart rate was high sometimes to 112. But it varied very quickly. One second it was 90 and the next second it would be over 100. I thought she was just having BP issues and would get better with meds. But then I saw that greyish glaze over her eyes and thought it looked strange.
Can someone tell me what was happening, especially with her eyes? a day or two before she died, she lifted up her hand towards the ceiling like she was seeing something. She wasn't able to talk at the time, so I didn't ask her what she was doing. Why didn't I see what was happening? It never occurred to me she was dying! Why didn't I see that? And what's with the grayish glaze over her eyes? She passed 8 days ago. I miss her terribly.