My 97 year old grandmother moved in with my family over a year ago. She is still in good health but is very selfish and wants to go out all the time, have cooked meals made for her every night and wants to do whatever she wants. She’s very messy and doesn’t clean up after herself, she lies right to our faces constantly, and does not listen whenever we tell her to do something. Anytime you confront her about her actions, she wants to argue and deny everything and says “I shouldn’t have moved in”. She’s causing many arguments between us and thinks she does no wrong. We are all going crazy. How do we deal with this?