I need advice! I take care of my 84 year old father and 95 year old uncle. While my father's great depression hoarding and complete disrespect for women drive me nuts, my uncle is driving me to tears. My dad wanted our uncle to live in the house because he can't afford to live in a retirement home. Thing is, he isn't the one truly taking care of him, I am. I live in the house too with my son, and am going to nursing school so I can't work enough hours to move out. My uncle keeps touching all of my things. He uses my bathwash and/or pours expensive things in the sink because he doesn't know what it is, he's used our TOOTHBRUSHES, has moved my tampons in the fridge and/or thrown them away, couldnt find his hairbrush so he used my FOOT PEDICURE BRUSH and is covered in his hair, turns the thermostat up to 90 degrees at night, he sneaks into my fridge to eat my son and I's food at midnight too when I already make him dinner(with my own money!). This is financially burdening me! Just today I had to spend another $35 dollars for health related items he threw away and I'm on a tight food budget because I'm already financially crippled. I ask him about it but he always 'never remembers doing it'. He's gotten upset that there was no toilet paper and smeared feces all over the walls, he pees on the floor, I have to watch out that he doesn't sneak in and eat raw food from the fridge. I'm not getting paid for this!! I never accepted him as my responsbility and feel that my space is invaded no matter where I hide things! How do I elderproof without stuffing everything I own into my incredibly small bedroom! I feel resentment towards my father and my uncle and have bottled up these emotions for a while. I feel lost.