She alienated her sons and eventually both daughters in law with her bitterness and hatefulness. In her world, everyone is her slave and should drop everything else just to help her.
She chose to live in independent living rather than assisted living. She refused POA or anyone seeing her bank accounts. We stepped away for our own sanity. Now this. She has nowhere she can go. I asked her to contact social services and even the facility manager. My husband and I can afford one month (April) to keep her where she’s at in hopes she can find a solution for May. We live over an hour away and are both in poor health. Brother is in poor financial health himself so can’t help. MIL burned all her bridges with family & friends.
She shows no signs of dementia. She is in a wheelchair after a minor stroke and refused physical therapy to help her walk again. (She gets more attention being in a wheelchair).
I can not physically, emotionally or monetarily help this woman. I suggested she call Medicaid and also talk to the facility manager where she’s at in hopes he will help her get a social worker.
I fear she will be thrown out on the streets. Any advice?