My 93-year-old mom is in good health, but her knee is totally shot. Should we consider surgery?

That is a tough one to decide. Since she is in such good condition and may live many more years, the surgery and rehab could be worthwhile. The anesthesia can be hard on older people. She may have continuing pain in the knee after the surgery -- many do. That would be my main consideration. If I were making the call, I would probably encourage my mother to do it. What does your mother think? What do you think?

I say yes! My mom is 95 and just had a right reverse total shoulder replacement in January after a fall. Just existing is not good enough, quality of life is necessary. The rest is in God's hands. As long as she is on board and can be cleared for the surgery, don't let the naysayers hold her back.

I would consider it very carefully...I am so happy for you and your mom that she is otherwise healthy! My mom is 85 and last year broke her hip and went to surgery for repair. She did fairly well,especially since she is tiny and not a good eater. THis year in March she had a hemicolectomy for colon cancer. She has again recovered well physically which seems almost miraculous..the one thing I notice is that her memory for some words and names isn't like it was prior to surgery...she struggles to find the right word at times and says "sound alike" words sometimes...I think her critical thinking and reasoning skills have declined since her second surgery..and I wonder if it is "just her age" or if it is related to the two anesthesias in 15 months...I know that your mom is having pain and that must be difficult to live with...particularly since I have noticed that pain control in the elderly in my area leaves a lot to be desired..but don't underestimate the toll that a major surgery and anesthesia may have on your mom..it's so much to go through! But if she is a good eater and a vital person
who has a clear desire to go for it, I would say approach it cautiously, make sure you find a few opinions from reputable surgeons, and get a good presurgical evaluation (mental and physical) and be very aware of her baselines ! Good luck!!!!

My mother had a hip replacement at 99 and did fine, Like your mother her heart, lungs etc were healthy. She is 105 now and bedridden from vascular dementia but she had several more years of good mobility after the surgery and is not in pain in her hip which she was. I would go for it.

Please think this through very carefully. My 95 year old mom fell and broke her hip early April. Within a week she had pneumonia, an MI and a UTI. Despite a month in skilled nursing and physical therapy she still can't use her walker and now has blood clots in both legs. She had been living independently 4 months ago and has lost so much in such a short time. All I can suggest is to weigh the benefits vs the risks, get another opinion and a full cardiac work up. When you and your Mom make your decision, don't look back or feel guilty if there are complications. Good luck!!!

I would vote "no". My Dad who was 94 at the time went to see an orthopedic doctor and the first thing the doctor offered was surgery. I was so relieved when my Dad said he didn't want surgery. But Dad still kept thinking about it.

Where I work there is a chiropractic and sports injury doctor across the hall. When he heard that my Dad could be thinking about surgery, he told me if Dad changes his mind and wants surgery to bring Dad in so he can talk to Dad. No way would he want my Dad to go through knee surgery at his age. Plus the rehab recovery is about a year for an older person. He has patients who are half Dad's age who come in for rehab and wished they never had the surgery.

Plus the risk of memory issues accelerating which isn't uncommon in the elderly when they have surgery. I know I lost a few brain cells when I had a kidney stone removed and that surgery was short.

MarilynC, your suggestion is like mine. I have been looking into a collagen treatment process where they extract it from your own blood & then after processing it, re-inject at the point of pain. They also use a person's stem cells the same way. Very new & true, insurance won't cover..but if it works it would be worth it. Please let me know how it goes for your husband. Tiredat60, google "Regenexx" to research what I am talking about.

Anesthesia in the elderly is VERY tricky. My DIL is an anesthesiologist and she will pre-view a patient and she has refused to be the Anes. doc when she feels the patient is just too high risk.
IF they can do the knee replacement with an epidural and "light" sedation, that will significantly reduce the chances of a poor outcome. You really need to be talking to her drs about this. My mom had a hip replaced (she really did need this done) but went from walking with a cane for support to now being permanently needing a walker and using a wheelchair out of the house. I don't know if she'd do it again. She wanted a 2nd hip done but was refused and told she'd be wheelchair bound and the doc discharged her as a patient.
Sometimes the "desired outcome" is not what you want.
Maybe some kind of external brace would help your mother--I am anxious about surgeries and recoveries in the very elderly.

Find out about having the surgery using an epidural block to avoid the risks of anaesthesia. Check that you're happy the surgeon is accessing the very best prostheses available, and ask how he's going to ensure the one he uses on your grandmother is an optimum fit. All being well, then go right ahead - keeping your grandmother active and mobile is the best way to keep her enjoying her excellent health. More power to her!

I have a similar situation with my mom whose 86. She's diabetic with many other health problems including life long depression. We got through hip replacement about 3 years ago just barely.

Now her knee is bone on bone and docs say replacement is all that's left. She remembers well the long recovery from the hip surgery and is in no hurry to have the knee done. Her doc has been giving her periodic injections that help for awhile.

Unless she demands to have the knee replacement I'll not push it. I just can't imagine her fighting through another painful rehab successfully. If she was in better health and more active it might make sense.