She has run up over $20,000 in credit card debt to gamble. She spends over $1,000 a month cash from her meager income gambling. She is mad at me because when she was sick, I didn't pay her bills and ruined her credit. She has taken the bills back and is paying minimum payments on them. She won't admit she has a problem and is starting to bounce checks, etc. Do I need an attorney to take her bills away from her or what? Frustrated...she has called me everything in the book when I have tried to make her understand what she is doing...there is some dementia going on I think too.