My Mom is 86 Years old and I believe she has Alzheimer's Dementia but she refuses to see a Neurologist for evaluation stating she's not an invalid. She has been on a major cover up of all her "slip ups" for some years. She has been living with me for about 2 yrs and has known from the very start I do not tolerate smoking in my home. However, I have caught her in the act and she will stand there and lie about it! I caught her this week again and finally stated to her that she will need to go to assisted living because she has caused me unrelenting stress and health issues. She is fully aware that I have asthma and that I regard her vape AND cigarette second hand smoke that is deadly to me. I am 63 yrs old and quit smoking when I was 28 and unwilling to put up with this in my home. How do I get her to stop smoking and also to get her to agree to evaluation?