I care for a friend name Nancy that has a boyfriend for the last year. She goes to his house several times in the evening. I tell her not to go it's over and that there's a restraining order against you. She continues to ask why and precedes anyway. The police have been involved and several situations with her and him. He's currently been out of town for 3 months to avoid contact with her. Recently she's been stealing things from his yard on a regular basis and bring them home. How can I help her change this behavior?