I live in Chicago. BUt my mother is 85 and lives in Lyndhurst, Ohio. My sister is 60 and lives about a mile away from my mom. My sister is not too well physically and mentally and her husband is moving forward with a divorce. I'm working on getting a lawyer for my sister. She and my mom are not really capabable of doing so. My sister is also about to have a hip replacement on 11/19 and is planning to go to my mom's house to recover! She doesn't really have anybody else. I try to keep in touch and do what I can but it's hard long distance. Can you suggest anything? My mom is really not able to deal with all these life issues my sister has.