I know a lady almost 50 yrs old. She is an only child & has 2 adult kids & her husband is 10 yrs older than her and disabled with his back. The lady cant get ANY Social Security because she was a stay home mom and never paid into it. They live on her husbands SSDI $1100 a mo. She is ALOT more disabled than him from her hips to her feet. She weighs almost 400 lbs. She has almost lost all ability to walk & that is getting worse fast. Do you just let her lay there in her waist till she dies? Her kids arent able to assist her at all. She also is looking after her 73 yr old dad who has beginning dementia. He lives next door & he can't help her.