I've posted elsewhere about my frustration looking after my mother, and mentioned, I think that I have two daughters whom I also look after. The younger has cognitive problems and will never live alone. The elder, who has struggled with mental illness since she was 9 (schizophrenia) finally, 2 years ago, got on a medication that help her so much she was able to start college, and begin to plan a future. Bang--rare side effect that was only just picked up. She has psoriasis arthritis in her toes, heels and spine. Although all her doctors are working together, treatment will be difficult as changing the psychiatric meds could end up --well I don't even want to think about it. At this point I'm just angry, and have no real idea how to help her.