My 85-year-old father who used to take two showers a day refuses to bathe. He will kick and fight me, will not even allow my mother to help. Even with care takers he is just just angry and refuses. He is starting to smell. What advice does anyone have? Or experience good and bad.
Idk if this helps.it's just what worked for us.
Apologies for not giving better advice. It's a difficult one. My FIL is 88 and chair bound, and was refusing showers initially but now he looks forward to his one a week. It's not enough but at least it's something.