I was in the process of returning to school to learn about geriatric medicine when I came across this site. It is wonderfully unfortunate to see others are going through the same drama I am going through. I say unfortunate b/c taking care of aging parents should not fall onto the shoulders of one or two siblings when there are others. I say wonderfully b/c there is comfort in knowing others are going through the same thing. God bless all caregivers!