Mom lived on her own with 2 dogs, because seriously ill, after weeks in hospital we brought her to stay with me and my husband. Didn’t think she’d make 6 months but with proper meals, companionship, and managing meds she’s quite well now. Have agreed to let her live with us but we do not want her two dogs. We are not dog people. Now the guilt trip, saying we are forcing her to move back to her place because we don’t want her dogs. Feels like she is choosing her dogs over her own daughter. It seems like a trivial thing, but taking care of her is enough work without the smell and mess and upkeep of pets. And we can see more control issues coming. We’ve told her it’s her choice: re-home them or continue living in her own house. Are we being unreasonable?