I went to visit the VA and they were very helpful.

I was asking about the aid and attendance he qualifies for even though he was never injured. There is paperwork to fill out, and a waiting period of 30-45 days she said. I am not filling them out just yet, the doctor has to fill out one set. There are three sets. I think his aid only goes to his care.

Fingers crossed for you. I heard it can take a while and be very frustrating. The VA can certainly be helpful for people who are patient, though. They do have restrictions on income and where care can be received. I hope you can work those things through. I hope you'll let people here know what you're doing and how things are going. It is nice to learn these things.