My mom has an opportunity to move to a facility that would provide the safety and security she needs at 91 years of age. Because of her limited income & health issues, it was suggested we tap the VA and apply for the Aid and Attendance benefit available to her as a surviving spouse of a WW II veteran. It's proving to be a difficult navigation and I wondered if anyone can provide their experiences, information. Mom lives in New York city and would (we hope) be moving to Dutchess county New York. Would appreciate any help or suggestions.