My dad & my brother passed away within a year apart 2 yrs ago. mom has been living with me ever since.I am at my wits end but no one sees it nor cares! Its 3 siblings left in my small family. One lives out of town. My daughter has renal disease she's only 11, my son has autism with ADHD, my sister today had just been diagnosed with cancer, I have taken in her 16 yr old daughter to live with us too she is kind but very lazy & ccusses a lot. I am extremely patient but I am worn out no one helps out better yet no one can. I'm tired and angry with my elderly mom all she does is complain I can't do anything or go anywhere or she complains. She tells everyone I never feed her & I'm gone all day! I have many drs visits with my own kids and I have anemia. I never can please this woman! I have so much love to give yet she spits it in my face! I need away time from her. My sister needs me to! Ugh. I just cry and my chest hurts daily! Today I did a good thing for me i escaped & I had my face lifted. I left momma alone for an hour for ME! All h**l raised when I got home though! I feel so trapped! I am nothing what I do doesn't matter to anyone! My kids are what keep me going they love me always! My hubby is awesome.e in taking everyone in our home. I love him for that so much. I want appreciation that's all! I have given up everything for everyone else.