This group should be a safe haven where you can come to get help.
I recently did this, I had some great help but was also shocked.. Not at any advice I was given.. But the way I was spoken to by several members. Today I have logged on to see that I have been told if I can't take advice from a public forum then it's my fault. Advice I can take. Abuse I can't. I'm still deeply distressed about losing my mum and all I needed was some advice.. I miss my mum so much. If she were here she'd know what to do. To those that helped thank you. To the trolls that didn't... I hope you get treated the way you've treated me. That's all you deserve.
I'm not leaving and slamming the door, I'm leaving the group because I'm hurting so much already I don't need anymore.
All the best.