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Me too! This site has so many critics! As my counselor said until they know the whole story they should shut their pie holes! 2 weeks ago my doctor said she would get me help and crickets! This is no hope! With Trump cutting back all social programs I am up Shitt's Creek! I am sailing the ship along with an old, ugly, lying SOB that wasn't even given a dementia diagnosis from his last testing! She said she found him to be a very pleasant man? Her pleasant patient has been dropped by 6 doctors for lying! I was told to divorce him but 10 lawyers have said you are in no condition, any shape or form to get divorce! I told my daughter get ready because this woman will be calling her! She said she apparently can't smell? She is also a licensed counselor!
We're all here, A., and anxious to hear what's going on in your daily story. Send us a vent of steam any time you like. It's one of the perks of being an "ongoing" member. There are days for EACH of us that are just so overwhelming, and we just need to tell someone that. When there's no one who's there to tell, do tell US.
Abuser, taking care of 2 homes is difficult, especially when you are dealing with someone that doesn't help take care of their own.
You have been through the ringer with your mom and her shenanigans, no wonder you are burned out.
Take care of you and plan something to look forward to in the near future, something that makes you feel happy to be planning and preparing for, it really helps and then enjoy your treat, whatever it is it needs to be about you only and mom doesn't know about it.
Alva she is safe. I think I was venting. We get along more now than we used to, but do get frustrated with her and wish she would do more. I have spoiled her to some degree and have only myself to blame. Hopefully she won't need to go into a facility any time soon or at all. I just know she knows I'm not moving in with her in the event she needs 24/7 care. tbh I was just reaching out to you all here.
Rbuser, if your venting and just blowing off steam, I hear ya, we all have bad days, your not alone. It sounds like mom is giving up and understandably you are too. Maybe it's time for a facility?? Maybe fill us in with more or ask any questions.
If you're tired of keeping up the façade, then just stop. Walk away from the situation and let APS take over her care and the situation. You will be glad you did. I wish you well in waking away and taking your life back.
R, if she isn't safe anymore, have you considered a call to APS. It's hard for me to tell what is happening now that is new for you, and hard to remember what you have done in past to address this, that hasn't worked. Maybe you are just needing a shout out to vent that this all is just an awful s-show and you are feeling totally helpless. I am so sorry it's going so bad. Any clues as to what might help?
By proceeding, I agree that I understand the following disclosures:
I. How We Work in Washington.
Based on your preferences, we provide you with information about one or more of our contracted senior living providers ("Participating Communities") and provide your Senior Living Care Information to Participating Communities. The Participating Communities may contact you directly regarding their services.
APFM does not endorse or recommend any provider. It is your sole responsibility to select the appropriate care for yourself or your loved one. We work with both you and the Participating Communities in your search. We do not permit our Advisors to have an ownership interest in Participating Communities.
II. How We Are Paid.
We do not charge you any fee – we are paid by the Participating Communities. Some Participating Communities pay us a percentage of the first month's standard rate for the rent and care services you select. We invoice these fees after the senior moves in.
III. When We Tour.
APFM tours certain Participating Communities in Washington (typically more in metropolitan areas than in rural areas.) During the 12 month period prior to December 31, 2017, we toured 86.2% of Participating Communities with capacity for 20 or more residents.
IV. No Obligation or Commitment.
You have no obligation to use or to continue to use our services. Because you pay no fee to us, you will never need to ask for a refund.
V. Complaints.
Please contact our Family Feedback Line at (866) 584-7340 or ConsumerFeedback@aplaceformom.com to report any complaint. Consumers have many avenues to address a dispute with any referral service company, including the right to file a complaint with the Attorney General's office at: Consumer Protection Division, 800 5th Avenue, Ste. 2000, Seattle, 98104 or 800-551-4636.
VI. No Waiver of Your Rights.
APFM does not (and may not) require or even ask consumers seeking senior housing or care services in Washington State to sign waivers of liability for losses of personal property or injury or to sign waivers of any rights established under law.
I agree that:
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I authorize A Place For Mom ("APFM") to collect certain personal and contact detail information, as well as relevant health care information about me or from me about the senior family member or relative I am assisting ("Senior Living Care Information").
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APFM may provide information to me electronically. My electronic signature on agreements and documents has the same effect as if I signed them in ink.
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You consent to APFM's reaching out to you using a phone system than can auto-dial numbers (we miss rotary phones, too!), but this consent is not required to use our service.
I told my daughter get ready because this woman will be calling her! She said she apparently can't smell? She is also a licensed counselor!
You have been through the ringer with your mom and her shenanigans, no wonder you are burned out.
Take care of you and plan something to look forward to in the near future, something that makes you feel happy to be planning and preparing for, it really helps and then enjoy your treat, whatever it is it needs to be about you only and mom doesn't know about it.
(((Great big warm hug)))
Hopefully she won't need to go into a facility any time soon or at all. I just know she knows I'm not moving in with her in the event she needs 24/7 care.
tbh I was just reaching out to you all here.
You will be glad you did.
I wish you well in waking away and taking your life back.