Time to kick her to the curb.

Ashlynn,
Hugs to you. May you find the right words to express yourself and may your Mom actually listen. And if she doesn't , which she probably won't, :( come back on here and let it out.

So sorry for your tears.

((hugs))

Or you could stay away for a few days, Ashlynne. She may like you more if she worries she's lost you? Just an idea.

And I'm sobbing my heart out tonight, after 60 years of hell, because I've changed my phone number and, tomorrow, if she's lucid, we'll have it out and I will walk away, I don't know why this grieves me so much. She knocked me about and put me in hospital when I was 6 and she was the mother from hell always.

Tomorrow I will confront her, if she's not in looney tunes mode, and walk away.

dementia or not the sob who comes to remove me from my hill is going out feet first. ill eat hay, just leave me alone.

Changed my phone #, made it unlisted, advised the NH with a warning never to give it to madam.

Fair enough. We need an "Approved" stamp icon to slap on posts, here...

I understand, Ashlynne. She is cared for, so you've done all you can do. It is time for you to try to start enjoying your life again. Hugs to you.