Those of you who have read my posts know that I am taking my husband out of assisted living (AL) for home care. The decision was not made lightly. I worked with a team of professionals over two months to make this transition happen. On doctor's order, my husband must participate in the adult day care program and I must hire a night care giver. The decision was also made based on financial reasons and serious errors at the AL. I am thrilled that he is coming home, but I am also terrified. I don't know how long he will comply with the doctor's order. What would I do if my husband refused to go to the adult day care program? So many unknowns.