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i have a friend i have known since my nursing school days 1986 . she believes in karma and feels this is some sort of karmic thing i have to endure because of my faults in a past life. that my sister died because she full filled her time and karam on earth ( which is true , she was a awesome person and my nest friend. my sister died qug 10 , 2013 of sudden cardiac death at age 49 years old) . i am my mother's only caregiver and i am all she has , my brother is useless and offers no help . he lives out of state , even better for him. anyway she thinks this is something i must endure and learn from. i just thought i must of been really bad in a past life to endure this.. what do you think of this thinking? have you ever thought of this? i haven't until now .

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It really comes down to what you believe...to me karma just means what comes around goes around. Honor what you believe and don't focus on what others tell you or what what you believe. You are fine just as you are.
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Thank God for pets! We also have 2 indoor outdoor ones, and several ferals we feed. Plus shared custody..LOL of my daughters Tiny chihuahua. The folks love them... They are good company and entertainment..
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i want to come back as one of my cats too ! one of my kitties lola trixiebell is my avatar .. i have 2 other lydia who is a maine coon and 15 years old ( i've had her since she was a baby) then i have Fiona who is a tabby and she is 3 almost 4 years old. they are spoiled. you made me feel better ty
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If reincarnation is real, I want to come back as one of MY cats... Don;t let the Karma stuff get you down.. I;m sure you have your own belief system and it will work for you. I did get a chuckle about Coy's wife!
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hahaha whacked is right. i haven't talked to her again ... i don't know much about karma and reincarnation so i thought .. i have alot of anxiety now and after my sister died i felt so overwhelmed because i have mom and dad and then i hear this whacky stuff and it freaked me out .. it made me go backward in grief process and i felt really unsure about life. i slammed the phone in her ear and just cried , i have already felt more emotions than i knew i had .. thank you debralee i laughed when i read she was whacked hahahahaha thank you
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Your friend is wacked. Karma comes from within and how you live your life and the decisions you make that make you spirtually whole. No one can determine someone elses karma. You are mourning your sister and miss her so very much. No true friend would ever tell you to endure emotional pain. Dump the friend, give yourself time to heal from your sister's death and do what you feel is best to help your mother.
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Dear Oh; be good to yourself. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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thank you all !! you made me feel much better ! i agree totally ,, some people just make life worse and more complicated. i also had a friend tell me that my sister who died is no longer my sister because she will be reincarnated...omgggg i am under enough stress ughhhhhhhhh i just listen and say ah huh and think my sister will always be my sister ... ughhhhhhh i miss her so much i cry myself to sleep and wake up crying. she was my best friend and i miss her ,,, people are so callous ...
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I am a big believer in the idea that you have to live in the here and now and not worry too much about past errors. Life is for the living; God gave us brains to figure things out. Just because something is difficult does not make it good for us, or for the poor patient! Do what is best for your mom.
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Hmmm... thinking of it like this. Can you imagine how crazy life would get if we lived for a FUTURE life that we don't know about. Yikes.
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