Dad passed last evening at inpatient hospice very suddenly (he arrived from the hospital at 6 and was gone by 8:45) but hospice was able to make him comfortable and address his terminal agitation so all of his grandkids could say goodbye. He either had kidney failure that led to sudden liver failure, or sudden liver failure from meds that led to kidney failure. He was ready to meet his Savior and had no fear of death, and I’m thankful for that.
When I started hands-on caregiving almost a year ago, my husband was worried at first that *I* was going to die from all the stress, but that all changed when I found this community. Just knowing I had a place to ask questions and come to with concerns was such a relief. I appreciate everyone who answered all my many questions and gave insights and suggestions about dealing with and caring for those with the horrible disease of dementia. I truly appreciate all of you.
Carol Ann
Now, breathe, rest, and don't jump right into planning his services. Give yourself a few days at least to decompress.
May God comfort you and give you peace.
May The Lord give you all grieving mercies and comfort during this time.
((Hugs)) to you - I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
May you be surrounded in peace and comfort.
Very sorry to hear about your Dad and can only imagine the stress of just transporting him to a strange place....It sounds like it went as well as it could. I believe our family that has dementia, till the end can still sense our love and attention, Your dad was blessed at least with that. It is a miserable disease for all of us. Rest well knowing you did all you could possibly do, and may good memories you shared bring you comfort and smiles.
I’m glad that the site helped. It’s fine to go if you don’t need us, but it’s fine to stay to share your experience if you would like to. Grieving and some of the technical questions come up here too.
Very best wishes to your family, Margaret