Thank you everyone for your comments.. I feel bad when I say something and lay down the rules..But tired of being called mean and hearing her make little rude comments...All I wanted to do was give her a better home without someone abusing her verbally and mentally..But now it's happeing to me and I just am not feeling my self anymore.. I am not as happy as I used to be, I feel angry and frustrated..I love her but she's just pushing me and being demanding..And she just wants more and more
I suggest that you help your mom look for Senior Housing that could be Independent Living, Assisted Living or an apartment.
Since mom is cognizant you can and should tell her why you need her to find other housing.
There is a possibility that with therapy, counseling she might find some help for her depression.
With your health problems that you say you have you need to care for yourself.