All of your encouraging words have brightened my life. I sincerely hope something will work out as we actually want to sell our home and husband (yes, he is a saint) is getting frustrated as she is controlling our lives and our own home. I pray my brother will help but he doesn't offer the solution my mother wants which is to never be alone and never be responsible for her own life. She is a taker, not a giver. Medication gets me through the day.